We were cleaning up our room last weekend – or rather, the boyfriend was cleaning up his side of the room. Among the many little treasures we unearthed was a LIVESTRONG wristband – the yellow rubber things that were so popular a few years back. Well it’s only a shade or two off from my corporate wristband (yes, a wristband is part of our uniform) so I thought I might keep it around to wear.
Then I decided to check out the Lance Armstrong Foundation just to see what it was like. It honestly never crossed my mind to visit the site before. Well, it’s full of good (and free!) resources, and even brochures tailored to your age or ethnic group. You can read the African-American, Asian-American, Hispanic or Adolescent help brochures, among others. That was pretty clever. The Foundation even have Wedding Donations! Now instead of giving out wedding favours, you can make a donation and get cards to inform your guests why they are going home with a wristband instead of cake, chocolate, keychains, shot glasses… Another good thing about this site is that American medical social workers are probably a little bit more advanced than their Singaporean counterparts, because I found some advice on changing priorities that totally matched up with what I remember going through, and yet no one told me anything about it.
From there I got a link to Teens Living With Cancer, which is obviously for young people like me. I am still young okay, never mind that Fernando Torres, who is mere months older than me, said “I’m not old, but I’m not young”. There are a fair number of lymphoma survivors on this community site, because it’s one of the more common cancers among young people. Kids don’t get, like, breast cancer or colorectal cancer. Lymphoma and leukemia are far more common. Only drawback of it being a young people’s community site: The bad typing/spelling! Grrrr. There are even resources for siblings and friends to deal with cancer. Above all, a common theme of the site is encouraging youth to stand up and learn more about their disease so that they can “advocate” for themselves in terms of finding solutions, getting help and making decisions.